Showing posts with label self-control. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-control. Show all posts

Thursday, January 25, 2018

TV, My Sweet Nemesis


Oh, my sweet, sweet nemesis--television.

In March 2014 I publicly admitted my weakness. I'd created a late-night TV and junk food comfort zone. "Comfort zone" sound much better than "addiction," right? 

I thought I'd conquered television's dreamy pull, but recent late-night reruns lured me back in.
Shows from the past half century unfold before my delighted (and slightly glazed) eyes.

The Twilight Zone. Alfred Hitchcock Presents. Perry Mason. The Rifleman . . .

Midnight finds me ransacking the fridge like a rabid wolverine. After stuffing my face I fall asleep to the TV's lulling drone.
The next day I wake bloated, groggy, and kicking myself for making such a foolish choice. 
Again.
Last night I prayed for help. Instead of a sudden disdain for chocolate or a potato chip aversion, the Lord reminded me of Galatians 5:22-23. 
 
One of the fruits of the spirit is self-control.
God had already given it to me, but I needed to exercise it.
Say WHAT?

Late night TV offers a slew of workout DVD's promising to strengthen my abs and glutes. Unfortunately, none for exercising self-control.
So I prayed, "OK, Lord, I need strength to exercise my self-control." Soon after I came across this passage,

"As soon as I pray, you answer me; you encourage me by giving me strength."
Psalm 138:3 NLT
And He did. Last night I snuggled in bed instead of the recliner, and held a book in place of a remote.

You might be saying, "TV addiction? Seriously? That's nothing compared to what I'm facing."
Fair enough. So what are you struggling with today?
  • Drinking?
  • Smoking?
  • Drugs?
  • Pornography?
  • Stealing?
  • Eating disorder?

The list is almost endless, but no matter what we battle, the bible offers good news.


"The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure."
 1 Corinthians 10:13 NLT

photo courtesy khunaspix @freedigitalphotos.net


No matter what you're struggling with, it's not bigger than God. He's an ever-present help in time of trouble.

Bring your situation to Him.
Dig into the bible to find answers to your issue.
Be accountable to trustworthy people.
Be honest with yourself.

And I'll do the same with the TV/late-night food obsession. The trail of Nacho Cheese Doritos would give me away anyhow.

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Ode to Holiday Feasting

Christmas cake
photo courtesy of Apolonia @freedigitalphotos.net

 
My pants are size four.
I'm not anymore.
I know a quick fix.
I'll buy a size six.


Christmas cookies
photo courtesy Mister GC @freedigitalphotos.net
 
The sixes were great
'Til I over-ate;
And at this new weight
I now need size eight.

 

I did it again.
I'm up to size ten...
No-wait. That's not right!
My tens are all tight!




Christmas cake
photo courtesy of Serge Bertasius Photography @freedigitalphotos.net
 

Cookies, cakes and pies galore,
One bite always leads to more.
What can stop this upward roll?
Oh, that thing called self-control.



We're our own harshest critics. We beat ourselves up over perceived failures. But we can break free from the things that hold us back, and hold us captive.      
 
In my next post I'll confess what I'm struggling with.
 
And share my plan to finally overcome it.
 
What's in it for you? An opportunity to break free yourself.
 
What challenges do you face? Is there a habit you haven't been able to overcome?
 
In my next post I'll share a way we can link together to break the chains. 

Meanwhile, here's some encouraging news:
 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control." Gal 5:22-23.



candy and tape measure
photo courtesy of Danilo Rizzuti @freedigitalphotos.net


God's got our backs. We don't have to do it alone.
Please share this with your friends who are struggling, because I see victory in our futures. As for the niggling little voice that just told you, "Maybe for someone else, but not for me." Tell that liar to sit down, because YOUR victory is at hand.